be hαppy, why not? ♡

* this does not apply to all hate or polyvore members, this is just me letting out my feelings and ranting about mine and my boyfriends anonymous haters. *
 
• what happens within two peoples relationship is between those two people only and you do not reserve the right to come in and make them feel like shiit.
 
• one ; my pregnancy. dear anon that was on my ask.fm, why the fuckk do you care? whether or not I'm pregnant has nothing to do with you. If you really wanted to know then you could come talk to me about it and get the full story. and getting on my ask.fm to ask if I'm pregnant does NOT count as coming to talk to me about it. and do NOT send justin hate based on a rumor. don't send him hate period, but being a dickk to him because of a rumor you heard about me is just uncalled for. if you really wanna hate, send it to me but leave justin out of this.
 
• two ; the hater on justin's ask.fm about our anniversary, who the fuckk are you to judge? I'm sorry but I don't remember it being //your// anniversary? justin wasn't on much yesterday but for real? It's not such a big deal. as long as he knows that I love him and I'm happy we've made it this far then why the fuckk do you care? "wow yesterday was your "anniversary" and you didn't even spend any time with selena. what a great boyfriend you really are. haha. she had a horrbile day yesterday, all she wanted was to spend it with her boyfriend but you are too selfish to even think about her. I hope you guys break up and you die." OH HELL NO. telling him that we should break up and he should die is sooo fuckiing rude. you have no idea what you're talking about either. yesterday I was fine. yeah, the day kind of sucked BUT not because of justin. maybe you should come get the full story from me before you decide to make him feel like shiit. I got to spend a bit of time talking to him yesterday and it was fantastic. even the smallest amount of time spent with him is so worthwhile. you have no idea what you're talking about so just don't try, okay? I love him.
 
@str4tford4n0n this song in the set is dedicated to you. I know you never would do this, but if you were to break my heart into a million tiny pieces and throw me away I would be fine as long as you're happy. No matter what happens I'll always be by your side. please know that I'm here for you when you need someone to run to. If you need to cry, I'll be there to dry your tears. I love you and I'm going to be here for you, always. "for better or for worse, I got you." ♡

. . . I've searched the world and i know now it ain't right if you ain't lost your mind. I don't want easy, I want crazy. are you with me baby? let's be crazy. ♡
 
I want crazy . . . hunter hayes. ♡
 
• hi babe, so I'm going to start out with an apology. I lied to you. I told you that I was writing an essay but I was actually working on this set and finishing up this letter.
 
• welp, today is our official new new one month anniversary. ♡
 
• there's been a lot of trials and it sucks, but I've only been able to make it through them because you're by my side. our little thing that happened the other day made me nervous. It got me thinking that you would leave. I'm scared about it, a lot actually because I need you by my side and I love you. I'm sorry I pushed you away. I didn't mean to. I know how much it hurts you when I do that to you but I continually do it because I'm scared. I just want you to stay by my side. even if you decide you don't want to stay by my side through this then that's fine, I guess all I care about is your happiness.
 
• I chose this song because I kind of think of you every time I hear it. I love our spontaneous crazy moments. I love that I can be my crazy self around you. like that first night of spring break where we commented on acacias set for hours and just said crazy stuff. our how we got matching tattoos out of the blue. and the fact that we can be sexual and just not care what people think. I love everything.
 
• as I said earlier, I get scared that you'll leave me because of certain things.. but I guess there's something about that feeling that I love. I love being nervous of the outcome of things because when they end up being fine, I feel really grateful to have you. I don't know if that makes sense. it's just me being crazy. #yolo
 
• I honestly hope that there will be more "new new anniversary" sets to come in the future because that means we'll be together longer. I love you. I love our spontaneous, random, sexy, cute, funny moments. I hope we get more random impulses to try new things together and just be crazy because it's moments like those where you show the true you best and that's exactly what I love.
 
• I have things that I want to do in this life, and I really want you by my side to go through with those things. traveling to romantic or adventurous places, going on ice cream dates, skinny dipping, kissing under fireworks, dancing in the rain, kissing in the rain. the things you see in movies. the things I want to do most, I want to do with you. I love you.
 
• this letter sucked because dakota is throwing a fit so I need to go take care of her and get ready for dance but I love you. I'm sorry I spam you with so many sets and boring / ugly letters. I love you. ♡
 
mwah // selena. ♡

. . . I hope that you don't suffer but you take the pain. hope when the moment comes you'll say "I did it all, I owned every second that this world could give. I saw so many places, the things that I did. with every broken bone, I swear I lived." ♡

. . . honestly, I wanna see you be brave. with what you want to say, let the words fall out. I wanna see you be brave. ♡
 
• another simple set because I'm busy with other stuff but this will have some meaning, hopefully. ♡
 
• this song was written by Sara Bareilles for a friend who was having a hard time coming out of the closet. it makes me realize that this world is cold-hearted and evil. it sucks that we live in a world where someone can feel so uncomfortable living on a day to day basis because of their sexuality and how they feel about someone else. I want you guys to know that I watch it happen. I see friends struggling with this everyday, I see how hard it is for them. with that being said, you are not alone. there are SO many other people out there dealing with similar situations. you can do this and you won't be alone. I want you all to know that I'm here for you. I know there's not much I can do about it but listen so that's what I'll do. you are loved. I won't judge. I care about you. you are n amazing person no matter what. I see the hate on here and in real life everyday. I see it and I notice the hurt that people feel. you shouldn't have to be alone in your struggle and you're not anymore. I'm here to love you until the end because I know that sometimes all you need is that one person to actually care. I care, I really do. It's said alot by other people and they dont always mean it but I do. some people take one look at my relationship status and automatically assume that I don't care but that's not the case. I'm here. I promise. I want to see you be brave with everything that you have to say. If you need to talk to someone about it, come to me. I will be here for you. I promise. you are loved. ♡
 
• because I don't want anyone to feel left out, I'm adding a second part to this. even if you're not struggling with being brave about your sexuality or your love then I still want to see you be brave. I want to see you be brave in doing the things that you know you want to do in your life. if being a unicyclist your whole life brings you happiness then voice it. let people know that you are who you are and they can't change you. do the things that will make you happy. believe it or not, the sky isn't the limit. you can reach beyond what you thought you could and you can make your dreams come true for yourself. all it takes is faith. you can be happy and the first step is believing you can. I love you guys and I really mean it when I say I want to see you be brave. I'm here for you.
 
be brave, mwah // selena marie gomez. ♡

. . . I say that you can love me again even if it isn't the case. in case you don't find what you're looking for. in case you're missing what you had before. in case you change your mind, I'll be waiting here in case you just want to come home. in case. ♡
 
in case - ♡ - demi lovato
 
• hi, I'm sorry for the lazy set. I have some other things right now that are kind of preoccupying me and consuming my time. I'll try to make a real set tomorrow. I love you guys though.
 
• how was your day today? I hope it was good. come tell me all about it. I'd love to hear whatever you have to tell me. got a question? ask and ye shall receive. come talk to me and I'll help you as much as possible. I love you all so much. ♡
 
• today I wasn't in such a good mood. I feel sick, really sick. I called some kid an inappropriate name today in class because I was really fed up and I feel really bad about it. I got sent to the principles office. I've just had a bad day / bad night last night. I just want to cuddle and cry and eat chocolate. my emotions are all over the place. okay, I'm getting annoyed with myself so I'm just going to stop talking.
 
• pm me, I'm here for you. ♡
 
muah // selena marie gomez. ♡

. . . I hope that you don't suffer but you take the pain. hope when the moment comes you'll say "I did it all, I owned every second that this world could give. I saw so many places, the things that I did. with every broken bone, I swear I lived." ♡
 
OH MY GOD
@str4tford4n0n a bunch of memories just came flooding back.
you used to use this picture all the time in your sets.
http://www.polyvore.com/selly/set?id=37457850 I JUST FOUND THAT OMFG. cx
http://www.polyvore.com/selly_lt/set?id=40328114 WHERE AM I FINDING ALL THESE OMFG THE MEMORIES
and um this one http://www.polyvore.com/seriously_come_at_me_bruhhhh/set?id=40425763
http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=40529947 OH MY GOD IM LAUGHING SO HARD
http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/set?id=40619001 ASDJLSKJDHF THAT WAS RIGHT AFTER YOU KISSED ME AND YOU APOLOGIZED FOR IT. YOU THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO LEAVE YOU OMFG NO
http://www.polyvore.com/im_sorry/set?id=40618718 SO WAS THAT ONE SKDHFJKLSDHFJKSDHAFJKSADHFKJLF
http://www.polyvore.com/new_icon/set?id=40622547 THAT WAS RIGHT WHEN WE STARTED DATING. OMFG WE'VE BEEN DOING THE WHOLE "I LOVE YOU MOST" THING FOR A LONG TIME. I CANT STOP BLUSHING.
 
too many memories all came back just from one picture. I love you so much. ♥

. . . you've given me everything that I will need to make it through this crazy thing called life. and as i watch my baby grow up I'll only want what's best for her and I hope she finds the answer to my prayers and that she says, "he is good, so good. he treats your little girl like a real man should. he makes promises he keeps. no he's never gonna leave. so don't you worry about me." ♡
 
mama's song -♡- carrie underwood.
 
• Happy Mother's Day. I hope you've all had a good day so far. why don't you pm me and tell me how you spent your day? I'd love to hear about it.
 
• each of my siblings and I got to spend our own alone time with my mother today. my mom and I showed each other point dances and ate chocolate covered strawberries in the dance room. I know that sounds lame to you guys but it meant a lot to both my mother and I. we shared heart to heart conversations about things we've never been able to talk about together and it was actually really amazing. I love my mom. we've had ALOT of hard times in the past but I love her more than anyone could ever imagine.
 
• to all the poly-mothers, happy mothers day. you're all doing great. and to the poly-fathers, have an amazing day today and celebrate with your loved ones.
 
• not much else to say today. sorry for the crappy set. feels like I haven't made one in a while.. that's why it turned out looking like, well... that? have a good day. ♡
 
muah // selena marie gomez. ♡

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he's so perfect. dear god, can he just fuckk me already?
 
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. . . tonight, take me to the other side. sparks fly like the fourth of july just take me to the other side. I see that sexy look in your eyes and I know we ain't friends anymore. if we walk down this road we'll be lovers for sure. so tonight kiss me like it's do or die and take me to the other side. ♡
 

@str4tford4n0n after watching the music video for this song, I realize how sexy jason derulo is. I'd ride. c; ♡
just kidding, but I love you.

. . . touching you places only I know. you're wet and you're warm just like our bath water. can we make love before you go? the way you say my name makes me feel like I'm that nigga. but I'm still unemployed. you say it's big but you take it, ride cowgirl. but your love ain't free no more. ♡